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Preparation for me and Schat


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separation anxiety is a threat of separation from their mother. Yes, I am starting to have now  since I am going to leave on October and I can not carry him with me (Schat) to Netherlands. I have to prepare myself and of course Schat when I leave, Now he is currently in my mom en aunt's place (same house). I know he will be love and care . However, there are things that I cannot understand which is my feelings and I know Schat also do the same.

Vet advised me to let Schat live with them and me just visiting him. at least he knows that he will be there for such a long time/day/months. I am starting to bring all his stuffs for him to be comfortable in the new house. The big adjustment now is I have to sleep n my house without him. I really do miss him but I have to do this for the benefit also of Schat.  

I am not happy with this kind of set up but I have to be in control because I know when the time comes I have to leave Schat, he will look after me. I know 3months is just 3months but still I am going to miss my one and only baby. :( 

***the photo below was taken during the time we will go to his vet for the monthly vaccine. It is his first time to use a baby stroller (we borrowed it only).

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Will you be going for the whole 3 months? Or can you come back for visits?

it will be very hard, but it sounds like you are doing the right thing.

They feel so much better with familiar people and surroundings, if their immediate pack (you) aren't around.

 

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Oh I'm so sorry you're going to have to leave Schat but how wise of you to take these steps to prepare both of you. I know this is going to be very hard, both of you are in my thoughts and prayers. Love the pic!

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I would take something of yours that has been worn close to your body.....T-shirt (undershirt) etc. for him to snuggle with.  Also, of course, something of his own that hasn't been washed.....blanket, bed, rug - something that smells like "home". 

Has he been in your Mom's/Aunt's home before?

Are you leaving him there full time now?  I would have suggested 1/2 a day, then a whole day, then an overnight, then a week-end to "practice" seeing that you come back.....you always come back.

You are a very caring and loving Dad so of course it's hard but the reunion is going to be special.  Hugs.

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How heart broken you must feel having to leave for 3 months. You will miss each other terrible I know...but what you can do now will help him during the transition of you not being there. As Marlene suggested leave your scent for him and get him use to new surrounds now while you can. Hugs

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